Does he deserve your Tears?

Yes, Break up do hurt. And crying in pain is a normal thing. When you break up, your whole identity is shattered. It's like death. The grief and sadness caused by a break up can seem absolutely overwhelming and make you feel like you will never get over the pain. But do you think a person who left you in the half path deserve your tears?

I mean yeah, it almost seems unimaginable to stop thinking about your ex-partner and all the things you have done together. The history, memories and the times shared refused to escape your mind after a break up. But is crying is a solution to your problem? More you cry, more you make it hard for yourself. And why to cry for a person who is not there to wipe off your tears??

Love doesn't hurt, its the memories that hurt you. You give so much importance to that one person in your life that basically you start living a life they want. But now when you are alone why can't you live it for yourself? If someone stops liking you, you can do nothing about that. So better to live with Pride. Make him realize you are better without him. 

Move on is the only option you have! Move on doesn't mean to get commit to other person. But at least try to get commit with your life now. If you don't care about yourself, nobody will. The first thing everyone should learn is to love themselves deeply. Now when you are single, it is just your life. No sharing you have to do with anyone. That means, you can live the way you want! Isn't it great?? Whatever has transpired in the past has happened, but the future after the break up is in your hands.

You, yourself makes things difficult. You know what makes you happy, still you like your vulnerable condition. And I don't know why do people like crying all the time. You have spent some cherished moments with him. Why don't you remember that?? Rather than being sad for what is over, just be glad that it was once yours. Things are never hard to do, we make them complicated. Yes, the memories never go but it fades as the time passes.

Make yourself so strong that nothing related to him affects you. Not even his NAME! For you love hasn't gone,it was he who left the love and went away, then why are you affected by his name or whatever he do?? If it is really his fault, he will ping you all his life just to see your reactions. This should only make you happy that he is still running behind you. The reason he is doing this is that  he wants to do friendship again and settle every matter and make you clear his reasons or else he might be somewhere guilty for his doing. I know forgiving him is not easy. But I would advise, you have to forgive to forget, and forget, to feel again. You can't sit all your life with the pain. It will take time but eventually you will move on!

Sometimes you realize the breakup may have been for the better, but many times you didn't even want the break up to happen in the first place. But love doesn't come with guarantee and warranty. And you can do nothing if the person fell out of love. It could be you also. Just because it is you who is suffering, you feel like Saint! 

I am here to tell you that the situation will work itself out. In time, you will either end up moving on, or get back with your ex-partner. It is certainly not easy, but I promise one of the two will happen! Your broken heart may take time to heal, but you will never get through it without your Friends! So talk to them, do things which make you happy, keep yourself busy, be happy and do fall in love again. Give a chance to love! There is always a second chance in life! Why to cry for a moron, when you can laugh with a real man?! (: