Thursday, February 21, 2013

Love Guru? Really?

For the love-struck teenagers who are just confused about their relation.The weakest and heartbreaking point comes in  a relationship, when you realize you are the only one trying hard to make things works. But remember, it is you who make it and who break it. Listen to your heart when in trouble, not to others. You know your partner better. :)

There comes a time in everyone’s life when their love life starts hitting rocks. Relationships go sour due to some or the other reason. Or maybe, we just over- think and make the situation worse than it actually is. Well, whatever is the case, our mind gets flooded with thoughts of our partner and we constantly strive to find out solutions to the problems in our relationships.

Now, what do most of us do? Tell everything to our friends! That’s not wrong, you must share the pain. But where do we go wrong? In asking for advice! Who knows your lover better than yourself? Then why do you go on asking everyone “why is he doing this? Why is he behaving like this?” and so on. 

Sometimes, this discussion or advice seeking leads to unwanted problems. What if your boyfriend is just plain busy in his work, but your friend tells you that her ex – boyfriend used to behave like this when he was dating someone in his office. What does it lead to? baseless doubts. unnecessary over – thinking. Unwanted tears. And lot of other things.

Seeking advice is not always wrong, but going by what others say without any thought shows that you don’t trust your partner or your relationship enough. Trust your love. Don’t imagine or exaggerate. Love to love. Stay happy :)



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