Love Guru? Really?

For the love-struck teenagers who are just confused about their relation.The weakest and heartbreaking point comes in  a relationship, when you realize you are the only one trying hard to make things works. But remember, it is you who make it and who break it. Listen to your heart when in trouble, not to others. You know your partner better. :)

There comes a time in everyone’s life when their love life starts hitting rocks. Relationships go sour due to some or the other reason. Or maybe, we just over- think and make the situation worse than it actually is. Well, whatever is the case, our mind gets flooded with thoughts of our partner and we constantly strive to find out solutions to the problems in our relationships.

Now, what do most of us do? Tell everything to our friends! That’s not wrong, you must share the pain. But where do we go wrong? In asking for advice! Who knows your lover better than yourself? Then why do you go on asking everyone “why is he doing this? Why is he behaving like this?” and so on. 
Sometimes, this discussion or advice seeking leads to unwanted problems. What if your boyfriend is just plain busy in his work, but your friend tells you that her ex – boyfriend used to behave like this when he was dating someone in his office. What does it lead to? baseless doubts. unnecessary over – thinking. Unwanted tears. And lot of other things.

Seeking advice is not always wrong, but going by what others say without any thought shows that you don’t trust your partner or your relationship enough. Trust your love. Don’t imagine or exaggerate. Love to love. Stay happy :)


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Education and Politics

Just read the Yahoo cover story on "How educated are our Ministers?" They give a long lasting list of different degrees with some other higher degrees and some foreign degrees too of  our Honorable Ministers of India. But are those degrees make them capable enough to run our "The Constitution"??

Does some degrees from here and there can give them the authority to run a country??

As we know in India education is very important and it is no more an option. We need to be educated to scale new heights and to stand in  this competitive world. Almost everyone wants their children to be highly educated and it has turned into a new never ending race.

The education system of India may not be the perfect one, but yet it is one of the best. In recent times, many changes have been made in the education system by adding new scheme and techniques. For different fields, different sets of colleges in national level and private level are built all over India. Different fields with different subjects, different colleges, different degrees, higher degrees, jobs, government jobs, private jobs. Doctors. Engineers. Lawyers. Teachers. Bankers. etc.etc. The more you are educated, the higher the post and salary you get.

But what about politics??

Have you heard any exam in which if we score highest we can be the President or the Prime Minister or The Financial Minister ?? Have you seen any college  giving the knowledge of Political science. I may sound funny, but did you?? Doesn't we need educated ones there?? I mean, yes there are subjects and courses like "Political Science" but does that give us direct access to be at a reputable post and be the part of  The Constitution of India? No. Never.

My only question is, "Why ??!" 

When we need qualification of the subjects in every other field why not there? Isn't it necessary to give a quality education there??

Any person from anywhere can choose politics, whether they are educated or not. Why don't we give power to someone who is highly educated in this particular field. For every other fields we have set good competition level by having different "All India Level Exams". Why not in politics we have such exams. Why we don't have colleges which teaches us "How to run India" or "What exactly we should do for the growth of India"??

Besides, what about the "eligibility criteria" ?? ( i.e., age limits) For every other fields we have age limits. ( Bade Bade aksharoo mein it is written *MANDATORY* ) Why not in politics? On one side we say that youth should take part and interest in politics on the other hand we give power to the those who are just counting their last breaths. Personally, I have no interest in watching such aged men in politics (and we can't call Rahul Gandhi,42, a youth leader). Hello, Wake up! We need youngsters and by youngsters I mean people who are in their 25's or 40's. 

Leaders ruling the parties say youth is not that mature. I agree. Youth may not be that diplomatic but at least they have tendency to bind the nation together. Youth may not have patience, but they have the quality of listening everyone's problem. Youth might not have solution but at least they won't exaggerate it. And specially, they are not CORRUPTED.

Wasting time and money in making parties, rallies, putting big-big flex of political leaders on hoardings (which reads, Munna bhaiya ko janam din ki hardik shubkamanaye, Oh God Why??!) rather give some valuable time for making a profound constitution. We have tough competition for every other post, then why not for POLITICS.

I know what all I wrote sounds weird but I am just suggesting and keeping my point. I do have faith on the leaders. I do love my country and I love its people but also being an "aam 

Janta" I can come up with an idea or suggestion. Give responsibilities on someone who deserve it. I know we have fair methods of voting, but once they are voted we know how much works they do. Corruption is main problem India is facing now and that is because the power is not in the good hands. There should be a change. I know I am no one to bring a change but at least I am someone who can share his ideas.

Light A Candle For A Change.

The Delhi "Gang-Rape case" ,shook the whole nation and somewhere touched every Indian. I don't know who the girl was; Nirbhaya, Vedanta, Damini, Aamanat whoever she was, but somewhere she is connected to me, to every girl here. She is now taken as India's daughter, sister and what not. The incident jolted citizens conscience.

Since 16th December she is the prime attention of the whole nation. She was truly a fighter, and fought the grimmest battle of her life. The pain, the torture given by the 6 incubus, she tried to overcome it. She wanted to live, but she couldn't. And another story comes to an end!

But this does not end here...

Hanged till death, chemical castration, beaten by stone, make them go through the same torture she went through are the toughest punishment demanded by the protester for the demons. Anyhow these criminals will go through some or the other punishment. But what about the other malignant spirits sitting behind the curtains?? Were they arrested and tried  in a court law for extreme depravity and outgoing the modesty of the women?? What about these ill-fated women who have gone through the same pain but nobody raised their voices for them??

Who will punish them?? Who will give insaaf to these victims??

After Damini's rape case, 21 rape cases took place all over India in just 16 days. Isn't it shameful ?? The nation which talks about Women Empowerment and gives "Barabar ka hakk" to women are facing such shameful cases. Who will protest for them??

Cry India! Your hand is drenched with the blood of your daughter. 

Protesting for such a cause is good, but don't forget what the "cause" is for. Changing profile pictures or lighting a candle will not help. Change yourself! It's not about one woman, it's about all those women who go through such horrific situations. Stand for them too! Damini binded the whole nation together. Now make the bond as strong as you can. 

"Ab uski maut ko waste na jane do."

Take the reason of her death seriously and kill all those demons of the nation who are desecrating our society, who are continuously profaning our women. Make India a safe nation to breathe. Don't put restriction and barriers on women, instead put chains on your rotten thinking. Government must bring unrivaled protection for women. This is not the first time or last time we are listening such stories, most stories are left untold.The 24,000-odd who were raped and devastated both physically and mentally last year alone too were a daughter, a sister or wife to someone. Protection of women should be now vital duty of the nation. Damini's plight had led to a demand greater protection from sexual violence that impacts thousand of women daily in India. Police must arrest accused, irrespective of who he is and his connection. And the judiciary must fast track every rape case for speedy justice to the victim.

Our cities will be safer when we acknowledge women as citizens. In the first place all the common people must take a pledge on what they can do individually in making our cities and towns safer. Pledge your role in making your city safe. First change yourself, then only you can change your society. We need to fix the system, neither the government nor the police are taking any steps in improving the situations. India demands change, and the change is in your hand.

Growing up

I am having a real bad days. And in the end, it left me amazed at how things change, how people change. How pathetic we human are and how worst we can get. How the people you once proudly called your friends are now the ones who make your life difficult. In this cruel world, sweet words are not guarantees, big hugs are not bonds. Behind the curtains, there is a big bad world. There are people who are looking forward to an opportunity to bring you down. I realized that i am surrounded by diplomats. People aren't as sweet as their words. Life isn't as simple as it appears to be. The person for whom you care the most are the ones who backstab you in very sweet way. And they have a very refine and generous reason for it. If you do the same then you are not a "true friend". And the best way to take revenge is to delete them from facebook id. And this immature thinking is called "growing up".
                               
When you try and care for someone, they called it interference. When you voice your opinion, you are mocked. There is no solution to this. The only way is to accept things the way they are. And above all the only person here blamed is YOU. And ultimately all this things frustrate me so much that I also start developing some of its traits. Now my thinking about my best friend have taken a wrong turn. I have become mean in my life. The only things in my mind are how to let them down. And this is not at all normal for a person like me, who have always been good to people in any situation. I am not very much extrovert about my feelings and so I am feeling helpless to share it with anyone. It is eating me up from inside.

It is on days like this I hate being grown up. Things were just so simple back then. Our friends were ours. Nobody knew what backstabbing meant. Competition was never a part of friendship. Fights never lasted for more than an hour. All it took a handshake to set things right. There were no diplomacy, no argument, no backstabbing. We were what we were and other people opinion were never a problem. And all this while I thought growing up would be fun. But this shit was never expected. 

As we grow up, we think we know too much. Competition ruins friendships. People hold grudges for their lifetime, their egos don't allow them to apologize. Now everything I see, I feel creates doubt in my mind. People whom I use to admire are now the people I hate somewhere. Still I mingle with them, try to be nice to them on face. Somewhere I try to exploit my every friend. And this is what I have become. I feel bad about my condition, I feel pity on myself. Although I don't want the child inside me to die. I want to be free from all prejudice. I want all that sweet innocence which knows no lies, no cheating and enjoyed the little things in life. I want to let go everything, every consequences, the bad worlds who is judging my every step. I want to be the person I thought I will be. Not what people want me to be. For me, THAT IS LIFE!! Trying to find happiness in little things, and big things not even matter anymore.
               'If growing up means it would be beneath my dignity to do what I love, I'll never grow up, never grow up never grow up! Not me!'

I CAN RELATE THIS TO ME

Before you can grow up, you must fall in love three times.

Once, you must fall in love with your best friend, ruining your friendship forever. ♥

This will teach you who your true friends are, and the fine line between friendship and more. ♥

Once you must fall in love with someone you believe is perfect.

You will learn that no one is perfect, and that you should never be treated as anything less than you deserve. ♥

And once, you must fall in love with someone that is exactly like you.

This will teach you about who you are, and who you want to be.

And when you’re through with all that, you learn that the people who care about you the most are the ones that you hurt, And the ones that hurt you are the ones that needed you the most. ♥

But most of all, you learn that love is only a concept and is not something that can be defined, It is different to each and every person on this earth, knowing that everyone wants to be loved. ♥ :)

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