Remembering You

This poem I wrote during my first and the most painful breakup. Break-up times are the worst, you don't want to think about them but still they are the one you miss the most.
Those were the toughest days of my life, and all I can now remember is pain through which I went. 

What I’ve done to my life?I always sit with a knife.

Sometimes I cry, Sometimes I weep,
Sometimes I just think about him.

I do all sorts of things which are bad,
But then it makes me feel sad.

Still remember the days when he was with me,
But can’t understand why he left me.

I am all alone in this land,
Can’t he give me his hand ??

My every action reminds me what he used to say,
But it also reminds me, he has gone away.

I remember his laugh… His grace,
And the dimples on his face.

Friends say, I am stupid to cry for him.
But what do I do when I miss him??

I reminisce the day when he held me tight,
But now I am lonely tonight.

I remember the way he used to talk,
And the way he used to walk.

I remember the phone calls which were so long,
Can’t understand how everything went wrong.

I remember the way he expressed his love,
And expected me to say three words.

I remember the time that runs so fast,
The love that moves its past.

He said he will leave me never,
Now I think he is  gone forever.

I want them all-1

As people say "Sunday-Funday" , but I don't see any speciality in Sunday except I can only sleep a few hours more. That is because when you have parents, who are working for six days like a pig, they just want Sunday to spend at home, watching "THE CHATTER BOX" & Sleeping.

So, basically what I did today is I randomly went through the Facebook pages where I saw "Pretty Girly junks." They all were so cute. It was tempting. I just couldn't resist myself, I wanted them all. <3 nbsp="">

So, I thought to share it with all those girls who visit my blog and give a treat to their eyes. :P 

So girls e-xclusively for all of you. *Wink-Wink*

A girl should be two things Classy & Fabulous.  - Coco Chanel

Dresses that make you just like WoWW....

Unique and Awesome Necklaces.

Incomplete without My big Cool Funky Rings.

Love to wear them.

I don't know who invented H i g h h e e l s, But all women owe him a lot. 
- Marilyn Monroe 

They are just my favorite, and I own a lot of them and they are just always Adorable.

Always Comfortable and Adorable. <3 nbsp="">

As said in the movie, "Confession of a Shopaholic", "Because when I shop, the world gets better." :D

I wish I own them all, one day. :) 

A Common Man

It is depressing to see so many people dying. The death of the innocent people, crying , screaming for the loved ones, all this is very heart-breaking and shameful to see. Terrorism and terror attacks are now growing day by day. In recent times, if we see, mainly, most of the deaths are only because of terror attacks.

Yesterday, the serial bomb blast took place in a busy street of Hyderabad is one of the examples of another mass murder. This is not only about one attack, the never forgetting 9/11 attack on The World Trade Center in New York City, The 2008 Mumbai Terror attack on The Taj Mahal Hotel and Palace, Oberoi Trident, Chhatrapati Shivaji Terminus, Nariman House and many more. These are some of the many terror attacks which killed so many  innocent people and took the lives of pure hearted.

We talk about "Aman & Shanti" and togetherness. This is what "Aman & Shanti" means??Taking lives of innocent people. 

As told by an anonymous in "A Wednesday"-"I am that person who is scared to travel in a bus. I am that person who either gets trapped in rain or in a blast.I am that person who used to doubt others just by looking at their wrists and I am also that person who is scared to grow beard and wear a cap. I am that person who gives a deep thought to choose a name of his/her shop for trading fearing that my poverty may get destroyed in a riot. Whoever is involved in a quarrel, its me who is always killed in the end. Just look at a crowd of thousands & select one face. I am that person. I am just a stupid common man."  

Why for every other issue a common man is killed or terrorized? Whom-so-ever it may concerned but in the end a common man only have to suffer. It is said in My name is Khan, "Jab ek masum ki maut hoti hae, uske sath sare insaniyat ki bhi maut ho jati hae."

Day by day the terrorist activities are increasing and death of innocent lives is also increasing. I fear when my family members go to a crowded place. Why? Because, we are a common man.

As said in My name is Khan, "There are only two kinds of people in the world. The Good people who do good deeds and the Bad people who do bad deeds. That's the only difference in Human Beings."

But how to identify that Bad person, when he is just one of us?? I am not safe because I don't have security,I don't have a bodyguard,because I don't have bullet proof cars. Whenever a terror attack will take place my blood will spilled for quenching the thirst of such terrorists and I can't do anything about it. And no one can. I have tp lose someone but I am helpless. I can just hope that this time it is not me. I can just pray to spare me this time. I have no other option. I don't know till when this fight will continue but till then I will lose someone I love...

Because I am a Stupid-common-man.

Love Guru? Really?

For the love-struck teenagers who are just confused about their relation.The weakest and heartbreaking point comes in  a relationship, when you realize you are the only one trying hard to make things works. But remember, it is you who make it and who break it. Listen to your heart when in trouble, not to others. You know your partner better. :)

There comes a time in everyone’s life when their love life starts hitting rocks. Relationships go sour due to some or the other reason. Or maybe, we just over- think and make the situation worse than it actually is. Well, whatever is the case, our mind gets flooded with thoughts of our partner and we constantly strive to find out solutions to the problems in our relationships.

Now, what do most of us do? Tell everything to our friends! That’s not wrong, you must share the pain. But where do we go wrong? In asking for advice! Who knows your lover better than yourself? Then why do you go on asking everyone “why is he doing this? Why is he behaving like this?” and so on. 
Sometimes, this discussion or advice seeking leads to unwanted problems. What if your boyfriend is just plain busy in his work, but your friend tells you that her ex – boyfriend used to behave like this when he was dating someone in his office. What does it lead to? baseless doubts. unnecessary over – thinking. Unwanted tears. And lot of other things.

Seeking advice is not always wrong, but going by what others say without any thought shows that you don’t trust your partner or your relationship enough. Trust your love. Don’t imagine or exaggerate. Love to love. Stay happy :)


#COPIED

Education and Politics

Just read the Yahoo cover story on "How educated are our Ministers?" They give a long lasting list of different degrees with some other higher degrees and some foreign degrees too of  our Honorable Ministers of India. But are those degrees make them capable enough to run our "The Constitution"??

Does some degrees from here and there can give them the authority to run a country??

As we know in India education is very important and it is no more an option. We need to be educated to scale new heights and to stand in  this competitive world. Almost everyone wants their children to be highly educated and it has turned into a new never ending race.

The education system of India may not be the perfect one, but yet it is one of the best. In recent times, many changes have been made in the education system by adding new scheme and techniques. For different fields, different sets of colleges in national level and private level are built all over India. Different fields with different subjects, different colleges, different degrees, higher degrees, jobs, government jobs, private jobs. Doctors. Engineers. Lawyers. Teachers. Bankers. etc.etc. The more you are educated, the higher the post and salary you get.

But what about politics??

Have you heard any exam in which if we score highest we can be the President or the Prime Minister or The Financial Minister ?? Have you seen any college  giving the knowledge of Political science. I may sound funny, but did you?? Doesn't we need educated ones there?? I mean, yes there are subjects and courses like "Political Science" but does that give us direct access to be at a reputable post and be the part of  The Constitution of India? No. Never.

My only question is, "Why ??!" 

When we need qualification of the subjects in every other field why not there? Isn't it necessary to give a quality education there??

Any person from anywhere can choose politics, whether they are educated or not. Why don't we give power to someone who is highly educated in this particular field. For every other fields we have set good competition level by having different "All India Level Exams". Why not in politics we have such exams. Why we don't have colleges which teaches us "How to run India" or "What exactly we should do for the growth of India"??

Besides, what about the "eligibility criteria" ?? ( i.e., age limits) For every other fields we have age limits. ( Bade Bade aksharoo mein it is written *MANDATORY* ) Why not in politics? On one side we say that youth should take part and interest in politics on the other hand we give power to the those who are just counting their last breaths. Personally, I have no interest in watching such aged men in politics (and we can't call Rahul Gandhi,42, a youth leader). Hello, Wake up! We need youngsters and by youngsters I mean people who are in their 25's or 40's. 

Leaders ruling the parties say youth is not that mature. I agree. Youth may not be that diplomatic but at least they have tendency to bind the nation together. Youth may not have patience, but they have the quality of listening everyone's problem. Youth might not have solution but at least they won't exaggerate it. And specially, they are not CORRUPTED.

Wasting time and money in making parties, rallies, putting big-big flex of political leaders on hoardings (which reads, Munna bhaiya ko janam din ki hardik shubkamanaye, Oh God Why??!) rather give some valuable time for making a profound constitution. We have tough competition for every other post, then why not for POLITICS.

I know what all I wrote sounds weird but I am just suggesting and keeping my point. I do have faith on the leaders. I do love my country and I love its people but also being an "aam 

Janta" I can come up with an idea or suggestion. Give responsibilities on someone who deserve it. I know we have fair methods of voting, but once they are voted we know how much works they do. Corruption is main problem India is facing now and that is because the power is not in the good hands. There should be a change. I know I am no one to bring a change but at least I am someone who can share his ideas.