When it comes to men you have to first acknowledge that all men are different. But according to me, at some or the other point, all of them are somewhat same. Men are more afraid of being lonely. So, what makes a man fall in love ? I'll tell you.
A man falls in love with you because he knows he can be himself around you. He falls in love with you because he feels safe expressing his innermost, private feelings with you. And because he senses that at the most unconscious level, he starts to long for your company, for your touch, for your affection. He may not even know why he feels this way.
Well, according to me lets characterize them into three simple categories :
The first category, a man with iron shield behavior. Hmm...too caring, too possessive !! Usually with a narrow minded thinking, a male chauvinist ! They feel that we are all just looking for a man to take care of us like a baby and so we are going to bow down and make everything easy for them. To make him happy, you just need to be his girl all the time. Too outgoing girls, he don't like. Yeah, if you're bad he can't see it. You can do no wrong. And if you did, there need to be a "reason" for your every actions. Hence only few
percent of total girls can stand up to their expectations. And those few percent hardly exist.
Then comes the confused ones. Dealing with them is hell tough! They fall in love because we are sweet to him, and kind, and giving. ESPECIALLY giving. So we do things for him. We cook lovely meals. We light candles. We put on our sexiest clothes. And still he tells us that he's not sure how he feels. Or he became distant and moody. Or he does something very hurtful. And his patent way to end up relationship is.."We're not 'meant' to be together". The man goes along with dating and even enters the beginnings of a committed relationship, but then suddenly, without warning, he admits he was never that into you.
Bye- Bye !
Puff ! It Ends.
Last but not the least, the Casanova types or the players! There big advantage is their cute looks, charming personality. Actually these men changes their mannerism, speech, style and personality from woman to woman. These men just think from their dick. They target on "easy" women. Easy women find themselves played because that's what a player enjoys most. The freedom and the ability to go play. They don't waste time on women who "play hard to get". Ultimately there main aim is to chase the hottest girls, to gain popularity between friends. They linger with them, to meet their sexual needs and after that either they dumb the girl or they get dumped. But eventually whoever dumb, they will every time pretend as if they have dumb.
You must understand that a lot of men thinks that women are simple creatures. But a man would have a much harder time understanding women than women have understanding men. The main point I would like to make to women is never drive yourself crazy trying to understand a man. Realize that how to date men requires being on there level of communication. Remember their a lot of guys out there, don't waste your time and energy on someone who obviously doesn't deserve.
So, what girls are like? What are their types? That'll be my next post. (: